“We waited 14 years for our first child” — Dr. Yaw Adutwum opens up [VIDEO]

Former Minister for Education, Dr. Yaw Osei Adutwum, has opened up about the painful and emotionally draining early years of his marriage, revealing that he and his wife waited fourteen long years before they were finally blessed with a child.

Speaking about the experience on The Delay Show, Dr. Adutwum said the prolonged wait took a heavy toll on his family, especially his wife, who endured societal pressure, emotional distress, and the constant questioning that often comes with childlessness in many African homes.

“It took us fourteen years after our marriage before we had a child. Those years were not easy at all,” he recounted. “My wife suffered a lot emotionally. People talk, families worry, and sometimes you begin to question yourself.”

According to him, the couple explored medical options, prayed consistently, and remained committed to each other despite moments of discouragement and heartbreak.

He noted that there were times when hope seemed to fade, but they chose not to allow the situation to break their marriage.

Dr. Adutwum stressed that the experience taught him patience, empathy, and resilience, adding that it also shaped how he supports families facing similar challenges today.

“When you go through something like that, you become more sensitive to the struggles of others,” he said. “You learn that not everything happens at the same time for everyone.”

After fourteen years, the couple finally welcomed their first child — a moment Dr. Adutwum described as one of the most emotional and joyful days of his life.

He shared the story to encourage couples who may be silently battling infertility, urging them not to lose hope or allow societal pressure to destroy their relationships.

“Everyone’s journey is different. What matters is love, patience, and standing by each other,” he advised.

The former minister’s candid reflection has since drawn widespread reactions, with many praising his honesty and finding comfort in his message of perseverance and faith.

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